First, I have a problem with devoting a specific day each year to an issue. Anything worthwhile is worth thinking about all the time. Our consciousness is a collection of thoughts and attitudes, and it should not be necessary to raise awareness one day a year.
More generally, I am deeply grateful to be alive in a culture that treats women much more justly than in previous centuries or other current cultures. I was never at risk of being aborted or exposed at birth just for being female. I have never heard either of my parents wishing I had been a son. I received an education, developed a professional career, married a partner of my own choice, learned to drive, and I can vote in elections.
The freedoms women in western countries now take for granted were won through years of struggle. This struggle is still going on, both in societies where women are still subjugated or discriminated against, and also in western societies, where complete equality or justice for women has yet to be achieved.
It seems to me that the differences between men and women are natural and cannot be ignored. However, attitudes based on these differences can be changed. Sometimes, the individual differences between people are greater than the differences based on gender, but people still have a tendency to treat a person's gender as an important characteristic, using stereotypes rather than getting to know the individual.
The problem here is a more general one: the tendency towards group thinking. Generalizations are useful shortcuts, but they should be used carefully. Even if a generalization is true for a majority of group members, that does not mean it applies to all members. The generalizations applied to women are gradually being reconsidered, and we can only hope that eventually a person's gender will not be considered relevant in most contexts.
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